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Tip 7 - How to change your language for success

All of us affect, in one way or another, ourselves and the people we meet. This mainly happens on a subconscious level, through thoughts, feelings, and body language. These are reflected in the words we choose to use.

Most people like to be around positive people and avoid negative ones. People are more disposed to help us if we are positive, and they will dislike and avoid negativity. Negative thoughts and attitude, signified by the words we use bring up negative and unhappy moods and actions. When the mind is negative it is suspected (see this link) that poisons are released into the blood, which will only cause more unhappiness and negativity. This is the downward spiral to failure, frustration, disappointment and dis-ease. However a positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action.

The subconscious can be difficult to change, but it’s possible to notice the words that we use and to become aware of the impact they are having on ourselves and others. Some words in everyday use are just not helping us to be happier, more effective or more successful. Luckily it is possible to alter this quite easily. Here are some examples to listen out for. <click here> to read the full article.

Some mistakes in English from the pages of InnocentEnglish:

Bloopers from students learning English. About love & romance, for Valentine’s Day:

1)	I fell in love with her the first time I sawed her.

2)	He had such a worm heart.

3)	We were two sheeps passin gin the night.

4)	We have hated each other for so long. I want to borrow the hatchet.

5)	My dentist makes me blush twice a day.

6)	I don’t know if he will propose, but I am expecting.

7)	I have something exciting to tell you. My girlfriend and I got enraged last night!

8)	The groom was wearing a very nice croissant.

9)	He lifted the veal off her face and gave her a big kiss.

10)	I think she is really glad she got marinated.

A few others on various topics:

Recipes: Next, chop all the vegetarians into little pieces.

Health: It is dangerous to smoke while you are becoming pregnant.

Sports: It was so exciting to watch! The cheerleaders threw up high into the air.

Politics: The President got off the plane and gave a big kiss to the first ladder.

Grammar: Should I have a coma in the middle of this sentence?

Music: When he was through singing he had a standing ovulation.

Food: Do you like this food? I made it from scratching!

Parents: My bed has three blankets and a large guilt my parents gave me.

Weather: Rain makes old cars lust. So be careful about that. Once a car starts lusting, there’s no way to stop it!

Travel: You can’t sleep with me because it is too crowded. But you can probably sleep with my sister. That’s what most of my friends do when they visit.

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